How to become independent from parents – moving out.

Apr 20, 2022After Moving, Moving, Renting a House/apt, Students, Tips and More

This article is going to give you 10 easy tips about how to become independent from your parents and move out from their house. If you follow these tips before and after moving out, the process will be a lot easier. Tip number 1, communicate with your parents. Communication is key with really anything in life and if you’re getting ready to move out, let them know that you’re trying to get ready to move out. It’s a big decision, they’re probably going to have some advice for you and hopefully try to help you along the way, however if it comes to the case that they want you out you should probably communicate with them anyways and let them know that you’re trying to do the right things to actually be ready to move out, so you can be successfully out of the house. Tip number 2, develop a move-out plan. Having a plan and knowing what you need to accomplish is super important. Getting a job with a stable income, finding a place where to move, and letting your parents know your timeline helps hold you accountable so you can get the moving done. Tip number 3, start building your credit. Credit is something that landlords are going to look at, telling them whether you actually pay your bills on time or not. Tip number 4, determine your budget. If you’ve gotten a stable job with a steady income now it’s time to figure out your budget, this is going to be the most important step of the moving process because it can really make or break the entire experience. They say that you’re supposed to have up to three times the amount of your rent as your monthly income, so if your income is $3000 then you can rent at $1000 a month, but when you do your budget you need to account for things like your rent, your utilities, transportation costs, car payment, cell phone bill and food in order not to feel broke every single month.

Tip number 5, start saving for moving expenses. When you’re moving out for the first time, a good general rule is to have three months worth of bills saved up before you move out. Here’s a list of things that you typically need to pay for: rental application fee. It’s about 25 to 50 bucks at every place you apply to live at. Security deposit it’s usually separate from your first month’s rent and it’s anywhere from 300 bucks on average to the full month’s rent. Moving expenses, U-Haul for example is about 100 bucks or more, you’ve got to buy boxes and wrapping materials. You’ve got the first month’s rent that’s 300 bucks to 1500 bucks depending on where you live. Your power connection fee is 50 to 100 bucks and cable and internet connection, that’s about another 35 to a hundred bucks. All these things could be anywhere from a thousand to 3500 bucks, that’s just to get the keys so you can move in. If you get a roommate, that can help split the costing in half but it’s still pretty expensive. Tip number 6, find a place to live. The easy way to do this is to get on the internet, you’re going to find some places then you can start filling out applications.

Tip number 7, sell the things that you don’t want or need. List yourself on OfferUp or Facebook marketplace or take it to a consignment store and have them sell it for you and if you can’t sell it then donate it. You don’t want to move a bunch of stuff that you don’t want or you don’t need because it’s just extra work and if you sell it that’s just some extra cash. Tip number 8, stick to your budget. Now it’s time to stick to that budget you made, moving out it’s a big responsibility and if you get evicted it can stay on your record for about seven years. Tip number 9, pack and get movers. It’s time to finally pack up that room, your parents are probably going to offer up some free furniture and help you get set up. Boxes can be pretty expensive, so try to save some money if you can and throw your stuff in bags, it’s going to be a lot cheaper to move that way. If you’re moving locally, get your friends to help you move but if you’re moving further away try to get your parents to help you move because paying a moving company is expensive. Tip number 10, change your mailing address so that your mail goes to the right place. May you have a happy house hunting and happy new lifestyle.